you had to know it was coming… LOVE is a feeling. I once heard it described, “true love is a feeling, neither defined nor described but is experienced!”
believe me, I understand the harm in letting your feelings rule your decisions, because we can be fickle and wish-washy. what is truth this moment may not be the next. so we must be careful when love is a feeling. but if this ‘feeling’ repeatedly shows up, could it be truth? in my experience: it’s truth enough to take a look. God speaks to us all, and most times about things we don’t quite understand. (that’s when His wisdom is imparted if we are seeking Him) He has purpose behind every feeling, every emotion, every thought, every action. we may not trust ourselves to feel what we are feeling, but we can trust the One who put it there, who made us, who knows all and trust Him to explain. but we first have to let ourselves feel it and stop denying it.
Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.