what camp are you in when it comes to relationships that bring out the worst in you?
1) limit your time with them OR
2) bring it on! because maybe you have some area in your own life that needs work?
truth be told, I’ve wanted to be in the 1st camp but have often found myself in the 2nd (but not for reasons of self-growth.)
for what it’s worth, here’s what I think: it doesn’t matter what camp you are in as long as you are allowing God in your relationships! neither is incorrect. we all have areas needing work, so work on them, diligently. seeking Him for guidance in your relationships and how to better yourself [for His use] should be the purpose. He’ll lead you, let Him!
I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you. (Psalm 32:8 NIV)